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写下这篇帖子的时候，正在某甲方所疯狂加班。没有午休时间，昨晚 22 点走，被同事质问“人在哪里”。愤怒化作污言秽语，那种充满抱怨和仇恨的面目让我都不认识自己了。
\n真的很后悔当初为何没选择辅导员，为何选了一个只做横向的老板，为何进入了牛马专业，为何没早点看清自己的人生究竟想要什么。一直读工科，结果平平，在 debuff 叠满的行业里找垃圾工作，出来当社会螺丝钉。每天工作时候的心态都挺解离的，一开始拿到工资非常开心，现在只想着工资少拿点让我早点下班（然而根本不可能）。
\n前阵子开始兼职教培，还在初步阶段；最近打算申马理论的博，需要学习和准备的内容还非常多，但是慢慢积累吧，想在半年内补完马理论专业 n 年的专业课并且拿出能够和马硕同学的竞争的东西，还需要下大功夫。
\n如果有门友熟识马院的同学或者就是马院的，本人究极希望您能拨冗指点迷津。有学习或者择业困境的门友，也不妨多交流。
\n下午又要当孙子丙方汇报 sb 文档，玉玉了。

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果然认识自我是一生的课题

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马理论跨这么远。太苦了这个 😡

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为什么会选择想要读博，因为工作更苦吗

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我估计是楼主在过度加班之后一气之下的决定。
\n回兴国学校读博同样苦逼。

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读博也苦啊。看看其他工作机会？

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想读马理论是因为想要改变世界吗

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永远在路上

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光是找人打听导师情况就废了老鼻子劲了😭

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想找一个稳定的、有护照的、月薪 4000、朝九晚五最好有年假或者寒暑假的工作，感觉在我的认知里除了读博士重新获得应届身份和对口专业身份以外，没可能实现这个就业需求😭

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目前还有一个选择是兼职教培。文科博士经我调研，如果没有经济压力，那就是几乎没有压力（相比理工）

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唯心论一点，改变自己也是改变世界，那么就是想改变世界 😇

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但是文科博士毕业证也没有任何用处不如直接全力做其他事情
\n想考念经吃饭的人不少，就业难度+inf

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如果你有钱或者足够生活那随便，反正我不行………

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就业市场好可怕 😱 我也只是想找一个类似的工作而已

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此人不语，只是一味地在门里生产废料。

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考虑一下小学教师等等带教资的？感觉跟你说的比较接近。跨到马理论我想象中并不容易吧。

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带教资的没办法朝九晚五吧

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此人不语，只是一味地在门里生产废料。

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长远考虑，基本因子是生育率

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有些学校会有吧？高中同学哥哥小学教师，30 出头，现在闲到极致了，时不时出去钓鱼

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诚接这样的工作 🙏

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