{"topic":{"id":1723,"title":"感觉上了大学挺失望的，该怎么办？","slug":"topic","userId":606,"categoryId":14,"createdAt":"2023-07-07 05:38:40.996009","bumpedAt":"2023-11-20 13:46:46.788345","views":2598,"postsCount":32,"highestPostNumber":33,"likeCount":78,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"大学前的我，虽然成绩一直不错，但是我一直很反感学习就是为了考试的价值观，但是为了自己的前途，我选择向应试妥协，我会放弃所有想写的瑰丽文字与并不那么红色的观点选择写一篇套路的作文，我会练衡水体，会认真记忆理综里的化学题，虽然化学省一我知道那些题目的答案很多都是不严谨的或者说错误的。那时候我觉得上了大学就可以自由一些，至少不是什么都为了考试。\\par 可是上了大学我感觉应试的气氛更足了，好多活动的群同学一进来就问加不加分，学校宣传的榜样也好…","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"isPrivate":false,"isMembersOnly":false,"category":{"id":14,"name":"问答","slug":"qa","color":"f5c211"},"author":{"id":606,"username":"anonymous5","name":"anonymous5","avatarUrl":null},"realAuthor":{"id":606,"username":"anonymous5","name":"anonymous5","avatarUrl":null},"tags":["survive","experience"]},"posts":[{"id":4112,"postNumber":1,"raw":"大学前的我，虽然成绩一直不错，但是我一直很反感学习就是为了考试的价值观，但是为了自己的前途，我选择向应试妥协，我会放弃所有想写的瑰丽文字与并不那么红色的观点选择写一篇套路的作文，我会练衡水体，会认真记忆理综里的化学题，虽然化学省一我知道那些题目的答案很多都是不严谨的或者说错误的。那时候我觉得上了大学就可以自由一些，至少不是什么都为了考试。\\par\n可是上了大学我感觉应试的气氛更足了，好多活动的群同学一进来就问加不加分，学校宣传的榜样也好像一个模子刻出来的，90+ 的均分，红色活动，那几个经典的竞赛还有高的离谱的工时。甚至感觉还不如高中，虽然高中也是应试，但是刷题还很爽的，大学里面要卷很多完全没有意义的东西，什么写报告，什么 ppt，还有一部分背 ppt 的课。很多时候我感觉自己被迫站上赛道，所做的事情对自己毫无意义，只是为了卷别人。而卷又总是看不到尽头。","cooked":"

大学前的我，虽然成绩一直不错，但是我一直很反感学习就是为了考试的价值观，但是为了自己的前途，我选择向应试妥协，我会放弃所有想写的瑰丽文字与并不那么红色的观点选择写一篇套路的作文，我会练衡水体，会认真记忆理综里的化学题，虽然化学省一我知道那些题目的答案很多都是不严谨的或者说错误的。那时候我觉得上了大学就可以自由一些，至少不是什么都为了考试。\\par
\n可是上了大学我感觉应试的气氛更足了，好多活动的群同学一进来就问加不加分，学校宣传的榜样也好像一个模子刻出来的，90+ 的均分，红色活动，那几个经典的竞赛还有高的离谱的工时。甚至感觉还不如高中，虽然高中也是应试，但是刷题还很爽的，大学里面要卷很多完全没有意义的东西，什么写报告，什么 ppt，还有一部分背 ppt 的课。很多时候我感觉自己被迫站上赛道，所做的事情对自己毫无意义，只是为了卷别人。而卷又总是看不到尽头。

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中国大学毫无个人的存在感和价值，保研、评奖评优无非就是胡萝卜加大棒，奖励听话的、遵守既定规则的，鞭策不听话的、懒的，将学生像畜生一样使唤，把“愚民”作为基本政策，驯服你老实工作还房贷、生孩子，校长定期给你们打鸡血让你们为了理想而奋斗。996、内卷，让人没时间思考到头来谁受益最大？哪些北极鲶鱼在吸人矿的血？

尤其是你们胶带的西迁精神无非是美化“为了所谓的国家政策集体利益就强逼个人牺牲自己的一切”这段历史，从这一点看和现代奴隶（modern slavery）有什么区别。

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你想想你从高中接受的教育是什么？对家长和老师的绝对服从，不许有任何人性和自然的发展。性成熟了自然求偶却说不得早恋，学得近视了却说古人头悬梁锥刺股，诓骗你书中自有颜如玉和黄金屋，诓骗你登第后啥都有了，教你所以现在不要多想啊、要什么时候做什么事情。实则连范进中举都不如，高中的卷人们毕业了被汇聚在你们胶带继续卷，不卷找不到好工作，工作了不卷就会得不到晋升、上有老下有小就养不活或者生病了没钱治只能凄惨地度日连死都算是一种解脱。卷了一辈子到头来回想有什么可骄傲的呢？除了考试分数高一点，能说明所谓的你比别人更聪明点，更牛逼一点。

你们中特教育不就是培养老实干活的人，谁要你有自主性了，你要自由、快乐做什么？要不是美帝亡我之心不死谁要你屁民有自己的想法搞科技创新，要不是 BBC 天天报道你们怎样侵犯人权谁让你演一出中特民主的戏给别国看。

老祖宗也没科技创新不也延续了 2000 多年，上层压迫下层不也延续了 2000 多年，只不过压迫了一点就会换新的，现代科技手段让下层的反抗越来越变得不可能。不过中国人根本不吃西方民主人权这一套，哪怕防疫措施堪比纳粹，强行收押到集中方仓营，强行押上贵州大巴。

可惜某人一声令下，什么淄博烧烤，中亚峰会歌舞升平，谁还能记得过去。合订本啪啪啪打某些人的脸，某些人却恬不知耻地赖着不走。哪怕像文革把 2000 年来都没人敢扒的孔子坟给掀了，现在有几个人记得，中国人就是这样的，一代生种花家，世代还生种花家。有血性有胆识的在历朝历代都不为所容，都被杀光了，好在当代有好心的昂撒白人把自己发现和征服的土地分享给小黄人避难。

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Letting go of our attachments is a difficult struggle for all of us.

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在这里有一个大误区，就是和别人一起“卷”可以提高自己的前途。其实这不是真的，大学应该找到自己想做的事情，然后去做。这里有几个例子：

今年去了 Jane Street 的清华同学，本科时在做自己感兴趣的程序设计，并没有尝试和别人卷科研/绩点。但通过长期对自己感兴趣内容的学习在计算机工程领域获得了很强的水平，并找到了很好的工。
https://trinkle23897.github.io Trinkle 似乎卷了卷，但最终还是通过对人生的思考主要在做自己感兴趣的事并对人生进行了很多尝试。本来他申请目标是 Ph D，但最终读 MS 并进入了 OpenAI 获得了理想出路。
https://www.skyzh.dev 上交同学大二时候还在尝试“卷”，但随即发现自己并不是真的想和别的的同学卷某种独木桥。最终按照自己的兴趣进行了数据库领域的实习，并进入 CMU MSCS 项目，似乎出路也比他如果在一直“卷”要好。

这里是乔布斯在斯坦福毕业典礼上发表的内容：

\n
Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
\n
你的时间是有限的，所以不要浪费它去过别人的生活。不要被教条所困 —— 这等于是活在别人思想的结果之中。不要让他人的观点之噪音淹没你内心的声音。最重要的是，要有勇气跟随你的心和直觉。它们在某种程度上已经知道你真正想要成为什么。其它的一切都是次要的。
\n

总之要相信自己的直觉，去做自己感兴趣的事。一种已经被证实可以成为小丑的方法就是一直在活别人的人生，每天狂卷，最后发现和自己的目标毫无帮助。祝你成功！

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支持，感谢

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上面的例子 3，该同学直到毕业都还是年级第一，所以其实有点偏题了。。。
\n我倒是有个例子，该同学本科 gpa 3.3 还挂了科，但是对计算机有兴趣，最终成为了科研大牛

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我想重点是他并没有卷，他的同学在想办法混分而他学会了计算机基础课程的内容，而分数只是附带的。

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我认为有这种类似感觉的人都有着要做成某种事的追求。他们不会轻易相信某些规则，而是在对生命和生活的思考中怀疑着畸形古怪又常见且看似合理的社会现象。我不属于那些能拿来激励别人的卓越案例，说话不够份量，但我觉得人只要追求自己想要的生活，让自己的时间被充实的幸福填满，就已经无所谓外界的乌烟瘴气了，或者尽力改变环境使之趋于理想。
\n羡慕国外的生活，那就自己出去走一走看看；想要有切实的收获，那便做出相应的行动。如若仅仅只是在 internet 上大谈一番，那肯定是没什么影响，对自己的生活也没有啥作用的。

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大学阶段并不缺乏多样的价值观，当然，西交可能确实不如武大南开这类学校更松弛，更多地展示多样的价值观。但你只要愿意探索，不难发现学校中不乏多样的，各具特色的人生观念和价值取向。只是需要你自己探索罢了。

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我看到了他美赛 s😂

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为了达成梦想显然需要做出一定妥协，重点是识别出哪些妥协本质是不必要的，从而花尽可能小的精力代价做你不愿意做的事情

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我现在感觉一直在为了所谓未来的大饼妥协，初中讨厌文科讨厌体育，就画大饼说高考只有理科，高中我不喜欢应是，就画大饼说大学很自由，可以做自己喜欢的事情，但是每次大饼根本实现不了。现在也是，画饼说保了研可以做自己喜欢的，可以不卷绩点，但是认识了不少研究生，我已经不再相信所谓大饼了，。我感觉现在就是矮子里拔将军，读研好不到哪去，但是比直接上班好。

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悲哀的是，被卷了这么多年，我甚至已经不知道什么才是想要的生活。

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与各位卷王不同，我是从小到大都只靠着聪明劲学习的，既不想卷也不会卷，靠着西北地区的低分数线侥幸来了交大。上了大学以后看到如此浩瀚的卷王大队我真的心肺骤停。我也以为大学是让我学自己感兴趣的东西的地方，但事实上只不过是应试教育的延伸罢了。
\n至于上大学的目的，我一直觉得是为将来生活的目标打基础。但在每一天大学课程的学习之间，我除了疲乏与劳累，只剩下一脸懵逼——我每天都在干什么？为什么我看不到我的未来？
\n曾经梦想去做游戏，但家境与社会现状狠狠地扇了我一耳光。呵，梦想，现在梦醒了，我连想都不敢想了。

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初中讨厌文科讨厌体育，就画大饼说高考只有理科，高中我不喜欢应是，就画大饼说大学很自由，可以做自己喜欢的事情，但是每次大饼根本实现不了
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从来不说真话，但也没有骗人
\n高考确实文科只有语文，本科你也是自由，完全可以做自己喜欢的事情。但你真的习惯这种“自由”的生活吗？你有真正“喜欢”的事情吗？我想大多数人是想不清楚这些的。

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卷也是要看天赋的，有的人天生能卷，有的人卷不了一点。
\n我的一个同学，天赋不算出众，但是超级自律超级能卷，每次想到他的自律，我都羞愧难当。然后他去了中科大少年班，因为他不想再参加高考。然而进了少年班以后比高考更卷，天天卷卷卷卷卷，但是他的天赋比少年班平均水平要不如，为了弥补差距他只能加倍卷卷卷。具体怎么卷，因为他太卷了，我也不是很了解。然后去年，在体测的时候，直接心脏骤停猝死了。据我所知，他没有这类的病史，以前体育也很好。我不知道他每天睡多少时间，但是他就是在精力最旺盛的年纪活生生把自己卷死了。也许这可以算是一个反面例子。

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那你可以试试去创业，或者找实习就业这条路子吧。感觉挺适合你的，换条赛道就看不到周围这些卷分数的人了。我有个同学打算本科就业的已经 5 段实习了。还有做创业的同学，依托中国邮政代购东西到海外，也挺热闹的。
\n心理学上，人是容易被周围的人的行为、心态潜移默化的影响的，周围都在搞成绩，你可能自己也会这么想。所以你可以试图探听一下有没有走其他方向的人，结识了也可以有所借鉴。

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年轻人卷死，中年人饿死................

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现在做牛做马是为以后做牛做马，别人巴不得做牛做马

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