{"topic":{"id":4068,"title":"男多女少的时代，两个男生分享一个女朋友是否可行","slug":"topic","userId":724,"categoryId":4,"createdAt":"2023-07-14 05:44:38.911344","bumpedAt":"2024-04-06 06:26:48.551909","views":579,"postsCount":6,"highestPostNumber":12,"likeCount":7,"closed":false,"pinned":false,"pinnedGlobally":false,"pinnedAt":null,"pinnedUntil":null,"isBanner":false,"excerpt":"我坐地铁看到两个青年男生和一个女生嬉闹，所以想问一下在交大里面两男和一女平常在一起玩是否可行？","deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"isPrivate":false,"isMembersOnly":false,"category":{"id":4,"name":"谈笑风生","slug":"general","color":"25AAE2"},"author":{"id":724,"username":"anonymous47","name":"anonymous47","avatarUrl":null},"realAuthor":{"id":724,"username":"anonymous47","name":"anonymous47","avatarUrl":null},"tags":[]},"posts":[{"id":6915,"postNumber":1,"raw":"我坐地铁看到两个青年男生和一个女生嬉闹，所以想问一下在交大里面两男和一女平常在一起玩是否可行？","cooked":"

我坐地铁看到两个青年男生和一个女生嬉闹，所以想问一下在交大里面两男和一女平常在一起玩是否可行？

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我觉得可以好哥们之间分享女友，也可以在好姐妹之间分享男友

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也许感情，尤其是爱情，显著特征就是有排他性

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你提到的问题其实触及了社会规范、道德和人性等多个方面，不仅仅限于男女比例的问题。

首先，关于你提到的“男多女少”的现象，这确实可能存在于某些特定的环境或社区中，比如科技、工程等领域的学校，或者某些特定的行业和工作场所。然而，即使在这样的环境中，男性和女性之间的关系并不一定会因为比例问题而发生根本性的改变。

关于你提出的“两个男生分享一个女朋友”的问题，这可能涉及到一个更大的社会和道德议题。在目前的主流社会规范中，这样的情况并不常见，也可能引发一系列复杂的情绪和关系问题。这并不是说这样的关系形式就绝对不能存在，但是在现实中，这种情况需要涉及到的各方面的考虑和处理可能会更为复杂，比如各方的感情处理、群体的接受度、社会的接纳程度等。

至于你说的两个男生和一个女生一起嬉闹，这本身并没有什么问题。朋友间的互动和嬉闹是很正常的，无论是男性、女性还是混合的朋友群体。只要他们的关系是健康的、尊重的，也符合他们自己的价值观和界定的关系边界，那么就没有什么不可以的。

总的来说，任何形式的人际关系都应该建立在相互尊重、公平、自愿和透明的基础之上。如果涉及到的各方都能够对这样的关系形式进行深思熟虑，并且愿意接受可能的后果，那么可能还需要进一步的讨论和探索。但是，在任何情况下，我们都不能忘记尊重和理解他人的感受和选择。

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交大我不知道，但我知道藏区一些偏远落后地区确实有两男一女的婚姻甚至一妻多夫。

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第三百零一条聚众进行淫乱活动的，对首要分子或者多次参加的，处五年以下有期徒刑、拘役或者管制。
\n引诱未成年人参加聚众淫乱活动的，依照前款的规定从重处罚。
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