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国庆假期也要结束了，本鼠鼠只能找这么个没人认识的地方倒下垃圾，止增笑耳😇

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表白是冲锋的号角，不是八字还没一撇就问...
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这些都做过了的话，她在这过程中没有一点疑惑和感觉吗？咋有这么纯的友谊的

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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不过都已经是成年人了的话，友谊也要有边界吧。作为朋友出去吃饭、看电影或者聊天都正常，但两个人深夜出去逛或者经常一起自习到很晚的话，还是考虑一下对方误会的可能性比较好。

如果确实想维持异性间的友情，那我觉得应该先试着和爱情划清界限，这样之后相处才能维持好光风霁月的心态，生活相处也没问题；而不是期待双方心有灵犀都按照友情来对待，结果等到发生误解才难过。

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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至少很认真地回复你了，现在只能收拾好筹码礼貌地退场了

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OMG，双方都好诚恳啊，感觉这个女孩子也不算完全拒绝，就是顾虑很多，因为未来还没有着落。

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其实很现实，未来不定数太大了。小情侣住一块也很容易就分了

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分了就分了，至少这段时间不会欲求不满，性焦虑、性压抑

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以过来人的经验觉得，你这完全有戏，女生对你有好感，就看你坚定不坚定，能不能坚持

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好久没见 Trump，最近为 2024 大选准备的如何😁

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Trump 最近官司缠身，处于人生至暗时刻

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$\"Donald$

\n","createdAt":"2023-11-19 12:31:33.698868","updatedAt":"2023-11-19 12:36:39.45035","replyToPostNumber":31,"replyCount":1,"likeCount":1,"wordCount":3,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[{"reaction":"❤️","count":1,"users":[{"id":5905,"username":"PipaQinse233","name":"PipaQinse233"}],"hasReacted":false}],"wiki":false,"version":2,"publicVersion":2,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":62,"username":"Trump","name":"特朗普","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/7e/7c/7e7caa0d27f5be20cc6375442d8116e5d8c3aaa6b71c26f787a93752032c0fed.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":17514,"postNumber":34,"raw":"\n![Donald Trump GIF|472x458](/uploads/image/84/d3/84d336046e06666662fd9f69ab9b3ff08e81755e9046b4aca848e27aa48ed5d0.avif)","cooked":"

$\"Donald$

\n","createdAt":"2023-11-19 12:32:19.03148","updatedAt":"2023-11-19 12:37:23.540383","replyToPostNumber":32,"replyCount":1,"likeCount":0,"wordCount":3,"liked":false,"bookmarked":false,"polls":[],"reactions":[],"wiki":false,"version":2,"publicVersion":2,"deletedAt":null,"isAnonymous":false,"user":{"id":62,"username":"Trump","name":"特朗普","avatarUrl":"/uploads/image/7e/7c/7e7caa0d27f5be20cc6375442d8116e5d8c3aaa6b71c26f787a93752032c0fed.avif","admin":false,"moderator":false,"signatureRaw":null,"signatureCooked":null}},{"id":17522,"postNumber":35,"raw":"![Screenshot_20231119-215227|225x500](/uploads/image/39/54/3954b47a942b52ba2f14ae797f55e0214d929cd5c792b00da7fd374378894c54.avif)\r\n川普可能要捲土重來了","cooked":"

$\"Screenshot_20231119-215227\"$
\n川普可能要捲土重來了

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你今天能赢吗

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$\"image\"$
\n你快赢了

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年月擦身过，暂且问，会更好吗？

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